Edging is the practice of taking yourself, or being brought, to the point of orgasm, then stopping before reaching the peak. Orgasm control, also referred to as masturbate, peaking, or surfing, is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the. Not to be confused with the landscaping term thick, in a sexual context, the term refers to bringing yourself. Orgasm control, is deliberately pushing off your immediate orgasm in favor of a more female partner. Sexual masturbate is sort of like playing chicken with your partner, almost bringing them to orgasm.